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TEAM ME - Redefine the Story of Your Life Workshop London 2013

19/7/2013

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On October 5th 2013, I'll be presenting a Full Day Workshop in Central London to demonstrate the methods and techniques that I use in my personal success coaching and presented in the ground-breaking book, TEAM ME.

This One-day Workshop will give you 5 Simple Steps to:
  • Discover Your Unique Identity 
  • Access Your Hidden Resources 
  • Experience a Quantum Shift in your Business, Relationships, and Personal Fulfilment 


Hi, I’m Pad - professional Success Coach and the author of the ground-breaking book, TEAM ME.

I want to invite you to explore this unique opportunity and learn how to make significant shifts in your life in just one day.

I will present you with a unique model that will give you practical understanding of your unique identity *and* demonstrate with numerous attendees (one of whom could be YOU) just how significantly things can change as a shift occurs at this core level.


The Team Me approach will enable you to truly understand who you are and help you rapidly assess your strengths and weaknesses. It will provide you the tools to bring about change at both your conscious and unconscious thinking.

“So, Take a Look at Your Life and Ask Yourself Seriously
Is Now the Time to Step Up?”

INTRODUCING YOUR POWER TEAM

Thankfully, it's not about drumming up will power, repeating endless mantras or ‘faking it til you’re making it.’  Instead, this approach shows you exactly how to access a whole team of powerful resources that already exist inside you; a TEAM that is ready to take action and get the results you long for.

Many people have settled for a life far below their potential; little seems to change and the ‘same old’ is the order of the day.

Yet there are others who, though they started with very ordinary, bland lives, caught a vision of something better and made a decision to step up to massively change their situation - forever.  This ‘self-engineered promotion’ is not for a select few – it’s forwhoever will.

So, join me and my other guest speakers for this remarkable, one-day workshop:

  1. Watch the live demonstrations right before your eyes and see the exact steps that will enable you to overcome significant life challenges 
  2. Listen to ground-breaking approaches that will equip you for countless life situations
  3. Feel the palpable transformation as you apply these truths to your own situation and experience the life-altering shifts that result
  4. Engage with the practical exercises and with others who share the same desire to learn, grow, develop and achieve so much more in life.
Majoring on the power of ‘Archetypes’ (made famous by psychoanalyst Carl Jung), I will explain some profound, life-transforming truths in remarkably simple ways.

Archetypes are simply those unique characters inside each one of us who have different ways of 'doing life'. Characters like the Warrior, the Lover, the Sovereign (King or Queen), and others, whose specific attributes hold the key to your success in countless situations. But do you know how to access their energies?

A change at this CORE level will affect every level of your life!
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You will discover:

  1. Why Archetypes work for every person on earth; regardless of race, colour, language or creed
  2. How to identify your dominant Archetypes
  3. How your personal Archetype profile determines your 'ceiling' in life.
  4. The 3 things that will bring you immediate and practical change
  5. How Archetypes help you overcome significant life challenges

YOUR SPEAKERS

In the coaching community I’m simply known as Pad. I'm a certified Master Practitioner & Trainer of NLP and a professional Success Coach who has been helping people gain break-through achievements for many years (I could truthfully say a couple decades, but that would make me feel old).
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SPECIAL GUESTS

Pad is joined by 2 remarkable guest speakers, both of whom are eminently qualified to lead you through specific exercises that will help you ground your knowledge, activate your experience and assimilate your learnings from the day.
Dr Claire Gaudry is a higher learning mentor and an expert ‘brain shifter’.

A recipient of the HEduBT, a European Doctorate in Biotechonology awarded to PhD graduates for excellence in international doctoral research, she has spent almost a decade in academic research, including over 4 years at Northwestern University in Chicago working with the best in the field of cellular adhesion.

Dissatisfied by the lack of practical impact her scientific work had for people and passionate about pushing the boundaries of potential, she decided to refuse an assistant professor position at an elite university to become a coach, trainer, trainer’s trainer, speaker and UK operations manager for a Korean international brain-based personal development company, overseeing the mentoring of 800 clients every month
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James Lawson, Performance Coach NLP MPrac. 

James spent 12 successful years writing & producing music, headlining tents at some of the largest music festivals globally. He released over 100 records, has been featured on over 50 compilation albums and has hit the Top 40 twice. Towards the end of this run of success, he found that keeping his creative edge became a challenge. This is something that he overcame by self-applying Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). Having discovered this wonderful technology, a passion for coaching gradually took over.
James’ career path changed dramatically as he began helping other people to achieve more than they previously thought possible. 5 years on, James works as a performance coach with a wide variety of clients from musicians, to stock brokers, to parents and children. James treats the mind and body as one system, believing that helping people make the appropriate arrangements with their unconscious is the quickest way for a person to achieve what they desire. Chose a Platinum ticket and you’ll have a guaranteed opportunity to talk with these speakers as you join them for lunch in a private room the DoubleTree/Hilton’s own LEVEL restaurant.
Choose a Platinum ticket and you’ll have a guaranteed opportunity to talk with these speakers as you join them for LUNCH IN A PRIVATE ROOM adjoining Hilton's LEVEL restaurant.
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WHO'S COMING? – ATTENDEES LIKE YOU!

This event is definitely for you, if you:

  • Are not completely content with your progress in life
  • Are stuck with a personal or professional issue you'd love to resolve - but don't know where to begin
  • Have ever felt you're *not enough* (we'll blow that out of the water in Session 4)
  • Are involved in coaching, mentoring or counselling and therapy work – seeking to get the best out of others (did you see ICF Master Coaches' feedback on the videos?)
  • Are managing teams within business organisations
  • Sometimes feel distinctly ‘out of your depth’ (Session 6 will eradicate this )
  • Are not able to effortlessly step up to any challenge that comes your way

And I must add that time and again I've found the connections you make in events like this prove to be beneficial for years to come - as it brings together people who are committed to stepping up in life - and you need people like that around you.
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(And remember that Gold Access tickets holders get a copy of the paperback book for free.)

SO TELL ME - ARE YOU REALLY WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE?

How do you feel when you think of the things you've failed to achieve in life?

If you haven't received a promotion recently, there's a reason for that ...and it's not because of your boss, your colleagues or your peers.

Clearly something is missing. But the real solution is not what you think (or you would have found it by now).

Of course, you could choose to justify your current situation and claim it's just how it is.

OR
You can make a quality decision to RAISE YOUR STANDARD and commit to finding a way to achieve what you've always desired.

So, I'm actually rather curious. Are you 'overcoming' – or merely living “a life of quiet desperation"? - as Henry Thoreau so aptly described it. If there’s even a hint of that going on with you, NOW is the time to secure your place and commit to stepping up into something a whole lot more meaningful.

“What if you discovered you had a 
Highly Capable Team 
inside you
just waiting to be called to the pitch!”

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Schools are back, the summer may be over and all eyes are on the closing months of the year but YOU can make a decision now that will ensure the best is yet to come!

So book your place immediately. Places are limited and you can get the Early Bird discount if you book for 2 people before September 2nd

Are you one of those people who is all too willing and commit to investing in your home, your work, your projects or even your family, but haven’t realised what would happen if you INVESTED IN YOURSELF?

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But there's more:

  • FREE PRE-SESSION PDF and MP3 DOWNLOADS
  • MULTIPLE TICKET OPTIONS
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TAKE THE NEXT STEP

If you apply these lessons to your life, you will experience what psychologists call a ‘generative change’ – a tangible shift in your perception that affects multiple areas of your life at the same time and helps you: 

          Grow in confidence and gain greater peace of mind

          Advance your position by create new opportunities

          Achieve greater recognition or even promotion at work (as Jen for proof of this)

          Improve personal and professional relationships

          Accelerate your performance

          Increase your influence both professionally and socially

          Obliterate procrastination – by providing motivation for more direct action

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So, I really have to ask…

“When will your life become important
 enough to invest in?"

My personal coaching programmes currently start at £2,000 for 7, one hour sessions - that's about £285 per hour. My clients have been happily paying this amount because the results that they achieve far exceed their investment.

The brilliant thing is that this one day course you will give you at least 6 hours of direct instruction, demonstration and personal discovery under my guidance – so you’re paying about six times less in cash and gaining 6 times more of time.

So the question is, would you prefer to simply get entry to the event, or seize the opportunity to gain direct access to Pad and the other event speakers by joining them all for a quality lunch. 

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So commit to taking action now – book your place immediately and make the most of the early bird offer - because it's only in the action that the learning and the growth, both for yourself and for others, is received.

This is very valuable information for anyone wanting to improve their performance, who is leading a team, raising children, or simply wanting to improve a relationship.

Join me to discover how your uniqueness holds the key to your success and achievement.

I look forward to meeting you there.
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The TEAM ME List of Archetypes

25/6/2013

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Six of the Best? Aren't there more archetypes than these?
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I’ve been asked many times why, when there are numerous archetypes that people have defined over the years, have I settled on only six... and why this specific six.

First I need to state that my primary intention is to improve performance and increase the effectiveness in my clients, so this orientation has played a major role in my selection of the archetypes I use.

Whilst I’ve gleaned a lot from a wide range of authors, I have learned much from Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette whose work centered around the four archetypes of: King, Warrior, Lover and Magician. 
Remarkable as their insights are, I found myself innately suspicious of anything that attempts to classify the complex human condition into a mere 4 quadrants. As I explored these crucial archetypes I began to see that there was a missing piece between the ‘King’ and ‘Magician’. I believed that there was a separate archetype for the Mr Spock or Sherlock Holmes type that could not comfortably fit under either title. These highly intellectual characters never ventured into the realms of ‘magic’, but insisted upon the rational, the logical, the reasonable in all matters. From this I decided I needed to add the ‘Sage’ – present in many other archetypal lists or models.
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Equally, I found there was too much of a stretch to push all kinds of attributes into what these gentlemen defined as the Lover. This was especially true regarding aspects of the arts and comedy. An observation of people in everyday life will quickly reveal that there are some people who are very ‘loving’ but aren’t very artistic at all. There are even those who are very ‘loving’ but have little sense of humour (less common, but I have at least one person in mind). And so I ensured that my model contained the Jester, at least – who completes the ‘right brain’ trio.

I fully acknowledge that I could sub-divide the 6 archetypes I use for my initial profiling but starting with something too complex is never a good idea, I believe, so I go with it as far as I can before any kind of subdivision is sought. When I do, I might introduce the Mother, the Innocent, the Shepherd, the Artisan and others, because I see that they all have some value.

It was only once I’d defined the six and started working with them that I began to realise there were 3 that were clearly the ‘left-brain’ types and 3 that were clearly the ‘right-brain’ types. After that I discovered that each had a clear opposite number in the alternate camp and identified exactly what forces caused an attraction between them.

I could add that the ‘Mystic’ is almost synonymous with the ‘Magician’ – though it depends upon whose definition you use.
I believe that every archetype, in its original form, has a certain nobility about it – that, at its core, it is a force for good, able to contribute something valuable to the world. That said, it is fully understood that under certain circumstances these archetypes can (and often do) choose to use their unique energies to force their way onto others – taking them into what we refer to as ‘shadow’ expressions.

So I need to clarify that what some people refer to as archetypes, I see merely as an aspect of a broader archetype. The Bully, for example, is simply a facet of an overheated (shadow) Warrior in the Team Me model. Equally, the Victim is the frozen shadow of the Warrior. Both of these are seen as sub-sets of the original, noble archetype - I do not see them as archetypes in their own right.

To label someone as one of these shadows immediately places them into a dangerous position of the individual identifying with that state and in a sense 'owning' their shadow state. Whilst some therapists seem to delight in stirring up an individual's darker sides, I simply use them as an indicator of the mature, positive, healthy archetypal role they've been given in life.

So, quickly back to Jung and Freud. These men did not define archetypes, they had been recognised at least since the time of Philo of Alexandria (10BC to 40AD) but they did make new distinctions as they saw common characteristics and patterns at an unconscious level. 

I've learned much from many who have delved into the world of Archetypes and brought forth many valuable distinctions on their journeys, My commitment is to make this knowledge as accessible as possible, without diluting things too much, to the largest possible audience - so I'm sticking with the Team Me Six. 
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Rachel Elnaugh and Pad Discuss Archetypes ahead of Prosperity 2014

16/6/2013

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A Warrior in the Dragon's Den? 

I was recently invited to join a call with 7 other 'Innovators'  to contribute to the planning of Rachel's upcoming Prosperity 2014 conference in London. 

It's been a while since Rachel left the Dragon's Den team and has spent the last few years majoring on numerous philanthropic activities. Her mission now is to help people get free of a 'poverty mindset' and is wanting to make an impact on those caught in this way of thinking. 

After meeting her in June, she wanted to discover more about what I did, and was particularly interested in understanding my work with Archetypes.

Listen in on our conversation as I seek to convey the message that's been on my heart for several years now and forms the basis of the TEAM ME concept.
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10 Powerful Ways to get out of Stuck: Part 2

11/12/2012

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5 Things not to do...It’s time to be your own life coach. Get to the root of what is keeping you stuck in whatever area of life you’re finding difficult.

If you haven't seen 10 Powerful Ways to get out of Stuck: PART 1, have a read of that first.

It’s interesting to note that some people are motivated much more by what bad stuff they must avoid in life, rather than what good things they could lay hold of.

So, this list is for you if you’re in that camp; if you need to hear about the things that could be getting in your way right now. Address these and you’ll find the success comes an awful lot easier.


6. Seek the perfect answer before taking action. 

This approach is definitely going to keep you stuck! If you have been maintaining this frame of mind, and I’ve been guilty of way too much of it during my life, you may be justifying your lack of action with a very convincing argument that you could do it that much better if you just learn a bit more, get a better role model or attend another seminar.

You may not be stuck on detail, however, it may be that you haven’t completely defined your grand life purpose and think you must get that completely nailed down before you take another step. 

These are just excuses. It’s time to admit you are procrastinating. And procrastinators always have very good reasons for their approach. But ‘to know and not do, is not yet to know.’ That means that if you haven’t taken action on what you already know, you don’t really even know what you think you know. Did you know that? Take action, learn from the doing and you may be surprised t what actually works.

7. Dive in with all you’ve got... without a sustainable plan. 

Have you ever made a New Year resolution? How many of them lasted the year? Maybe some did; probably the majority of them didn’t! Why is that? Surely your intentions were good, positive and admirable. So, was it a lack of will-power? 

Very, very often, it comes down to the fact that you didn’t have a plan of action that was sustainable. Taking time to plan ahead, for the good times and bad will help you plan what’s realistic and devise ways of countering those times when the natural motivation seems to have waned.
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8. Keep the blinkers on.

Blinkers are good for horses. They shield their eyes and stop them seeing stuff that could distract or frighten them – especially when they’re on the highway. 

Focus is a good thing. There are far too many people whose vision is not clear enough and they move from one thing to another wondering if this latest thing is the answer to their dreams. Yet it is equally dangerous to be so focused one thing that you ignore some important advice, opportunities or warning signs coming from another direction.

Don’t blinker your vision too much. Allow yourself time to look at alternative ways of achieving things because if you only have one way to achieve your goal and that fails, you’ll assume it can’t be done. 

9. Go at it like it’s a 100 meter sprint

The mindset of the marathon runner is far more suited for those who wish for long-term, sustainable success. Build up your personal and business fitness 

Establish habits that keep you active, growing and balanced, for this is how life can be sustained.

‘Business at the speed of thought’ is fine, once you’ve established a system robust enough to deliver. It does not mean that you should think it and 

“Ready shoot, aim.” Is another popular saying in modern business culture – and that may be exactly the right approach but *only* once you’ve assessed the potential risks, the downside you may be landed with if it all goes horribly wrong. And you do need to build into your plans that you will fail more often than succeed. That’s the only way to succeed without living under huge amounts of stress.

10.  Try to do it all yourself. 

Yes, it is essential that you take ultimate responsibility for your life, your choices and your behaviours. Once that’s clear, there are two specific things you really must do.

The first thing is to identify the areas that are required for you to succeed and build a team (or a better team) that is specifically composed of people who can take on the tasks that you are not so good at. Doing this will supercharge your progress and enable you to multiply your impact massively. 

The second thing is that it is also essential that you find a coach who can help you tackle those areas that are not natural strengths. In fact, if you’re really smart – and committed to your personal success – you’ll also have a coach or mentor who is several steps ahead of you even in the areas where you are skilled, able and successful.  


CONCLUSION

Take the first step – grab your own copy of TEAM ME to start your own voyage of self-discovery; gaining invaluable insights and changing forever the way you see your own potential.

“This is a wonderful book that shows you how to unlock your full potential for success and achievement.” 
                                 Brian Tracy – Author of over 80 best-selling books.

Now take the next step - do your own search to find a coach who is expertly suited to your situation 
or APPLY now for one-on-one coaching with me, to see if my approach is what you need right now. 
But whoever it is, for the sake of a world waiting for you to shine, get a coach!

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10 Powerful Ways to get out of Stuck: Part 1

2/12/2012

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It’s time to be your own life coach. Get to the root of what is keeping you stuck in whatever area of life you’re finding difficult right now.

Here are some absolutely key actions you can take immediately to bring about a big change in your situation. 


5 Things to do...

1. Get absolutely clear on your goal. 

Identify your most important goal – the one that will provide you with the greatest benefit, the biggest sense of fulfilment (or relief!) once you've achieved it.

Test it by ‘future pacing’. That is, imagine a time in the future when you've completely achieved that goal and see how it feels. In your imagination, really put yourself in to that position and ask yourself if it’s what you wanted and expected. How could it be better? Is there anything missing? Who is this good for? You, your family and/or friends, your community, nation, world? Are you actually ready for it? Is there any reason it couldn't be sustained once achieved? Once you have this clarity and its evidently something you can fully set your heart upon, take just a few minutes every single day to remind yourself of it in vivid detail. This will instruct both your conscious and unconscious mind that this is where you are heading. 

2. Get clear on exactly what you believe about the goal you've set. 

You may already know how important it is to get rapport with someone else before you attempt to persuade, encourage or input in any way into their lives. But now you should ask yourself, how good is your rapport with yourself? 

If that sounds like a strange question, maybe I should ask another question; have you ever felt that there is some kind of conflict going on inside you? Until these inner struggles are resolved you will always, in some way, stay stuck – because you’ll be pulling yourself in two (maybe more!) directions at the same time. 

I use a specific series of questions with my clients that helps them rapidly uncover these issues so that they can then choose what they want to ‘weed out’. 

Uncover what you really, deeply believe about your goal, your situation and your capabilities. Then you’ll be able to align yourself towards your goals and achieve... well, practically anything!


“These [live] sessions have been the most powerful few hours I’ve experienced in… well, years!”  
Hardy S - Corporate Executive. London.
3. Get clear on which archetypes are dominant in your life

There are many different archetypes that various authors present in their methods and they all their values. I like to keep things simple and focus on just six: the Sovereign, the Warrior, the Sage, the Lover, the Mystic and the Jester. 

If you’ve never actually profiled yourself to understand which are dominant in your life, head over the explanatory video at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BqyauKSZUHU and map your own, personal profile.

Without this understanding you won’t understand what’s driving you, why you want to tackle things a particular way (and why rubs certain people up the wrong way), what it takes to motivate yourself and what sort of people you need in your immediate team to maximise your unique set of strengths and weaknesses.

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4. Stay flexible.

Whatever you set your mind to do, make sure that you’re aware of the feedback you could be receiving. Simply look at the results you’re getting. If the results indicate that you’re moving in the right direction towards your intended goals, great... keep doing what you’re doing. If they’re not, then this is a sign that you probably need to try something different. 

If you’re too rigid you won’t want to do this, so ask yourself, if you were willing to try another approach, what would that be?

This is not a reason to knee-jerk the moment one person says something negative about what you’re doing, but a call to take seriously the need to have a system that measures your progress and a willingness to respond to the signals by flexing your approach.

5. Find a role model you can learn from. 

You have a goal? Good. Chances are someone has already done the very thing you want to achieve – or at least something similar. So find such a person and get as close to them as it is possible to do so. Learn from them, hang around them, read their books, listen to them as often as you can. You will find that they achieved what they have because of a certain mindset, a certain set of beliefs that they used to direct their actions on an ongoing basis. They will have made mistakes too – so take a shortcut by finding out what *not* to do too.

Close contact with a role model is one of the fastest ways of gaining the mental attitude required to replicate their success and, adding this to your present learnings, can enable you to go even further than they ever did.
We've got 5 more to go. But you can now take the first step – grab your own copy of TEAM ME to start your own voyage of self-discovery; gaining invaluable insights and changing forever the way you see your own potential.

“This is a wonderful book that shows you how 
to unlock your full potential for success and achievement.” 
Brian Tracy – Author of over 80 other best-selling books
Take the next step – sign-up with a coach who is expertly suited to tackle your situation. You can arrange a 10 minute call with me to see if my approach is what you need right now, or do your own search to find someone else. But whoever it is, for the sake of a world waiting for you to shine, do get a coach. 
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What is an Archetypes Profile? And why would you want one?

2/10/2012

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The Archetypes dominant in your life make you who you are.


The aim of an Archetype Profiling is simply to show you which archetypes are most dominant in your life. When these become apparent, all kinds of related issues can be understood and, very often, hidden in these issues, we will find the reason why you've become *stuck* at some point in your life.

Interpretation

When I play back what the profile has indicated, people sometimes simply acknowledge it; sometimes are completely amazed. But what happens next is the most important thing because with this profile to hand I can then easily predict what they value most in life, what motivates them, in what sort of situations they would find contentment and happiness, what types of people they admire (or loath), what their ideal career would involve. In many situations, it's not so much *what* they do, it's *how* they would do it.

Results

Listen to Joy as she talks about the impact a short profiling session had on her own self awareness and note the comments I've added into the middle of the recording. These will give you a context that would not otherwise be apparent, and shows you why the session was so liberating for Joy herself. 

How can I get an Archetype profile?


You can follow the method in Chapter 3 of Pad's book 'Team Me' (available from the Products page, on Amazon UK Amazon USor other online bookstores, as well as iTunes and Amazon as MP3s). This will give you a good indication of your present dominant and recessive archetypes, But in order to more adequately interpret the results, you might want to contact Pad and arrange a personal session by phone, Skype or face to face to gain a thorough understanding of who you were truly born to be.
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Brian Tracy Quotes

2/6/2012

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Brian Tracy - Author of over 45 books and over 300 audio and video learning programs on personal and professional development.
My Top 10 Brian Tracy Quotes...
I've written a little about how much I've learned from Brian in my book 'Team Me'. 

I'm one of thousands who have benefited from his insights, clear explanations, methods and encouragements over the past few years.

I thought I should share some of my favourite quotes  
  1. People with clear, written goals, accomplish far more in a shorter period of time than people without them could ever imagine.
  2. Practice Golden-Rule 1 of Management in everything you do. Manage others the way you would like to be managed.
  3. If you raise your children to feel that they can accomplish any goal or task they decide upon, you will have succeeded as a parent and you will have given your children the greatest of all blessings.
  4. Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others. Unsuccessful people are always asking, "What's in it for me?"
  5. You have to put in many, many, many tiny efforts that nobody sees or appreciates before you achieve anything worthwhile.
  6. Move out of your comfort zone. You can only grow if you are willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new.
  7. Never say anything about yourself you do not want to come true.
  8. Decisiveness is a characteristic of high-performing men and women. Almost any decision is better than no decision at all.
  9. The greatest gift that you can give to others is the gift of unconditional love and acceptance.
  10. The key to success is to focus our conscious mind on things we desire - not things we fear.



          And then there's one more quote I'd like to share with you...

What did Brian Tracy think of TEAM ME?

"This is a wonderful book that shows you how to unlock your  full potential for success and achievement."
                 Brian Tracy.  Author, The Way To Wealth 
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Shadow Archetypes

28/4/2012

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**This is an excerpt from Chapter 6 of TEAM ME - now widely available on Amazon and virtually every other online book store** 

The Shadow Side
During a private coaching session, I had introduced my client to the whole concept of Archetypes and led him through an exercise that helped him to connect with, and release, his ‘Sage’ in a very powerful way.  The results were immediate and, he told me later, had made a huge difference in his relationship with his fiancée.  As we rounded up he asked me a very good question, “Is it possible to have too much of one of these archetypes?”  

What we’ve focussed on thus far have been the healthy, mature expressions of each archetype; emphasising the good things that each one is naturally able, and inclined, to contribute.  We wouldn’t normally be concerned with anyone being ‘too mature’ or ‘too healthy’, but it is possible – in fact we should acknowledge that it is actually very common – for some of these archetypes to get out of balance – sometime chronically.  

Something that Carl Jung recognised many years ago is that each of these archetypes also has a dark side; a characteristic set of negative behaviours that can cause real damage to both the individual and those within their circle of influence.  

It is often said that someone’s greatest strength is also their greatest weakness and this phenomenon can be predicted very specifically for each archetype.

This dark side will often arise with the purpose of meeting our personal needs as rapidly as possible, often when we are stressed or fearful, and it will manifest itself in two broad ways; either as too much of an archetype’s traits, or too little of them.

If you can imagine each archetype being measured by its own thermometer, you can probably grasp the idea of there being a moderate zone of temperature that would represent the healthy, mature archetypal traits we’ve discussed thus far.  But if the temperature rises above this zone, we’d say this character is now getting overheated; and, equally, if the temperature dropped too low, the same character would become frozen, inactive and stifled in its expression.   


H20
A similar metaphor we might use for this is found in the various states in which we can experience water: H20.  

Water is, of course, vital for every kind of life.  Yet it has to be at a moderate temperature for any living organism to benefit from it, because only then can we drink it or wash with it or even give it to our plants.  However, if the very same water becomes too hot (or too energised, we could say) it can scald, hurt and even kill.  Likewise, if it is frozen it can’t be absorbed, it can’t nourish us - we can’t even wash things with it.  Turning to ice, it can block or burst our pipes, weigh down and break our power lines, paralyse our transportation, stifle our movements, immobilise our muscles, or even kill.

So the very same substance can sustain life within a certain range of temperature and can cause much damage when too far above or below this range.

In exactly the same way, each of our archetypes can provide great benefits to us if expressed within a moderate, balanced (healthy and mature) range of temperament – and can equally do great damage outside this range; either overheating or freezing. 
Picture of The Shadow Side
Summarising this:

The Balanced (or mature) zone contains all the positive qualities we’ve detailed so far.  It should be our aim to remain in this place, where a healthy expression of our archetypes’ key traits is evident and everyone around us benefits.  

The Overheated zone is where we launch into a predictable set of excessive expressions that invariably cause hurt and damage to ourselves and others.

The Frozen zone represents an evident lack of archetypal expression.  Here the individual appears unable to access the abilities and strengths of a particular archetype, even when the situation is demanding it from them, and such a lack of appropriate response will render them quite ineffective.  

What’s interesting is that each archetype displays very specific behaviours when it either overheats or freezes; when it operates with either too much, or too little energy.

Most people will find that their strongest traits, whilst mature and balanced much of the time, will on occasions flare up and overheat.  This ‘untempered’ strength needs to be effectively managed if damage is to be limited.

An archetype may also dive into a ‘frozen’ state of inactivity – usually in response to stressful situations or a major failure after giving something their best shot.  Even strong archetypes can lapse into this state when they’ve thrown everything they’ve got at a particular challenge and it is still not overcome.  For under-developed or immature archetypes however it may take little more than a certain tone of voice or a certain look from someone to cause them to ‘freeze up’ this way.

Jung referred to these negative zones as ‘shadows’; giving us a sense that the very thing that can bring us the help we need - the positive, mature archetype - also carries with it a darker side that is always present and potentially very damaging. 
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